You can still send a message -- it just won't show up in the recipient's inbox unless you match.
Coffee Meets Bagel hopes to offer users better-quality matches by sending curated matches, or "bagels," each day at noon.
Also because women must message first, Bumble tends to weed out the slightly more insecure males.
However the rate of overly confident males tends to be higher than I've seen on other apps.
Which is great if you trust the judgment of your friends and family.
Of course, some of us are trying to meet new people, far removed from our everyday lives.
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However, Ok Cupid has pointed out that these changes did help lower the number of offensive messages users received, which might be a worthwhile trade-off.